“To speak with Sr. de Lourdes, even for a few minutes, was to feel love.”
THE Romero Centre is this week honouring the life of one of its founders, Sister Mary de Lourdes Jarrett, who passed away last Friday 4 May, aged 85.
Loved by all those who knew her, Sr. de Lourdes was the original coordinator of Romero and assisted many hundreds of families during her time here.
Compassion for strangers and respect for human dignity were the messages that drove her work – and it was on these principles that she devoted eight years of her life to the Centre.
All those who visited Romero were touched by the gentle welcome of Sr. Mary de Lourdes. She ensured all refugees, regardless of circumstance, received the care that others were unwilling to give.
Romero volunteer and long-time friend Frederika Steen recalls Sr. de Lourdes as a woman with a gentle heart and a passion for assisting the world’s vulnerable.
“One of her great gifts was to listen to people,” Frederika said.
“She stood in place of the absent mothers, aunties and grandmothers – and the people loved her for that.”
Born in Nambour in 1927 and joining the Sisters of Mercy in 1948, Sr. de Lourdes was passionate about social justice, working with refugees from Indochina, South America and the Middle East throughout her career.
A professional infant teacher, she retired from education to join Romero in 2000, where she spent the ensuing years advocating tirelessly for the Centre’s mission. There were difficult times, when Romero had no permanent home, but that did not dampen the dedication of Sr. de Lourdes.
Recalls Frederika Steen: “She would jump into her little white car and drive to the upper reaches of Brisbane, to Springfield Lakes or Carole Park, where the refugee women lived – she brought her care and love to where the women were; she didn’t wait for people to come to the Centre.”
Fellow friend and Romero researcher Denise Phillips also shares her memories: “I will always remember the first time I met Sr. de Lourdes; she held my hand and spoke directly to me in a way people rarely do. To speak with Sr. de Lourdes, even for a few minutes, was to feel love. Her presence made me set aside my agnostic nature to believe in divinity. Sr. de Lourdes, with her clarity, kindness and respect for the human dignity of all, was exceptional. I will remember her each day with the hope, however small, of following her example.”
Sr. de Lourdes retired from active Romero duties in 2008, however the Centre and its work remained close to her heart.
She passed away peacefully last Friday at the Emmaus Nursing Home, Nudgee.
***Sister Mary de Lourdes: 19/03/1927 – 04/05/2012